They remember the man.

Over the years, I have run into people that remember Calvin from his mission or BYU days. When I start to describe him, it isn't the lack of arm they remember. In fact, it often takes them a while to remember that he didn't have an arm. They remember the caring and loving eternal missionary that loved the Lord and his family. That was what Calvin would have wanted to be remembered for. He never wanted to be treated different because he was born "different". This only made him try harder to be the best man he could be. He always gave his all.